Mostly humor. I figure that if you are able to still laugh to tears, you got it made. I’m on my third try, we’ve been together this August seventeen years and it’s wonderful. It’s like no work at all, whereas before you’re always trying to either, the first couple relationships I was ever in you’re trying to figure out if you’re ok, or if you have something to be admired. You know, it’s like testing ground, you’re trying to lay out boundaries but the way things are now, there are none and it’s just wonderful, and we still make fun of each other and nobody is hurt by it and it helps a lot. It’s unusually great, I mean God, we’re still crazy about each other and I’ve never been involved with anybody that long.